I'm thinking about asking for effexor but I'm not sure. I'm trying to find something to help with my mood swings. I feel angry most of the time, I freak-out over the smallest things. Thanks
Mood swings,anger, & freak out over small things, any ideas about what could help me?
Question posted by JavonM on 29 March 2011
Last updated on 29 February 2020 by Newyorkgal35
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I agree with many things Wildcat says I myself have been on many things over the years and early days shouldn’t have. been. One of them being Effexor was on quite awhile it is terrible with the withdrawals getting off. A mood stabilizer might be a better solution for your anger issues to balance you out. This has helped me more 20 than yrs later. It is good you are asking questions getting feedback. Good luck to you but, my recommendation stay away from Effexor there are newer better drugs these days
medicine and psychologist
I am on 300mg Effexor XR and I have been for years. It has helped me a lot but it did make me sweat all night but that wasn’t until I was at the higher dose.
THINK ABOUT THIS BEFORE YOU TAKE IT!
Please google “Effexor discontinuation syndrome” or “Effexor withdrawal” because it can be bad. I’m still on the high dose (to long to explain) but I just wanted to warn you please don’t be dumb like me and take 300mg for 3 because I’m stuck now. I’ve tried coming off of it but I had complications. I know you won’t start at a high dose like that but just be careful and if you think it’s not working stop it ASAP. The lower the dose and the sooner you stop taking it the withdrawal is less.
I went through the same exact thing u do,until I met Abilify.it changed my life.I dont know if your bipolar or not. I am bipolar 1 and I rapidly cycle I do not have a extreme happy I get extremely angry or extremely sad and depressed . Abilify has been able to control the madness. I no longer suffer from extreme anger I'm more even with my moods every once in awhile some depression slips in and unless I stop taking Abilify then I noticed the anger starts up again but as long as I take it I have no anger issues I had no side effects except for that I wanted to spend money .I highly recommend it it's been a great drug for me but it's not for everyone. Do you research don't give up on the low doses I had to be put on 30 mg to achieve the level I'm at. I have other mental illnesses but my bipolar is under control with Abilify.
I agree with allie! After being treated with many anti-depressants over many years a new psychiatrist diagnosed my depressive episodes, mood swings, anger and hostility issues as depressive/hypomanic episodes of Bipolar disorder.
I'm currently taking Abilify 30mg along with my Bipolar meds and I, too, am now under control.
whenever you go off of that you have to count pellets and break that capsule in into and count the pellets the withdrawal sucks be careful do not forget it and go to work you will feel l
ike s***
I have been experiencing what the title says for the past 8 years. I am in need of some kind of help as well. My marriage depends on it. My children are 5 & 2. I don't want them seeing me like this anymore. Which doctor is everyone seeing to get meds?
In the past i have been told that it all i needed was a good attitude. Others told me i didn't need to be on antidepressants. I beg to differ. For most of my life, I have felt like I wanted to die. Life wasn't worth living with all the depression I felt, crying jags, anger and so many other symptoms. I didn't know what was wrong with me. Finally, in my 30's I found a doctor that understood. I have bipolar disorder with major depressive disorder. I have been on many different medications. Sometimes I get tired of taking them, but then I remember what it was like without them. I don't care what others say that don't know anything about depression. I was told at one time to get a boxing dummy and take out my aggresions that way. It didn't help. I would rather die than go back to not using medications to help me.
Hi, msoneal! I agree wholeheartedly!! I lived half my life in total misery until I finally started taking the appropriate medications and I'll never go back.
Unfortunately, there is still a ridiculous stigma attached to mental illnesses and disorders. These "people" wouldn't hesitate for a minute to take medications for diabetes or cardiac disease, would they?
But with their holier-than-thou attitudes they are simply in denial that they, in fact, not only need an education, an attitude adjustment, but perhaps a little therapy and/or medications for their own problems.
Stick to your guns... your life is most likely happier and healthier than theirs.
well the real answer is that you need guidance! proper listening and command will set you free. Its like a discipline school. You will not have to take meds ever again. Jogging and bag boxing will help you dramatically, give it a try ..
I totally know where you're coming from; suddenly even certain smells bothered me. I sought help at the time because I found myself irritated/angry over the smallest things. I had young twins and had recently gone through early (@27) medically induced menopause and I didn't want them to bear the brunt of my uncontrollable emotions. At first Effexor helped in that it made me unable to emote, no matter what. The reason I am submitting this, in fact the only reason I just registered, is to say DON'T DO IT!!! Had the doctor told me, had I known for a minute that once I took Effexor, I would never be able to come off of it. I never would have started. The withdrawals after missing only one dose are horrifying.
I've had to taper off Effexor twice for an unrelated medical problem... using the decreasing dose schedule provided by my doctor I had NO symptoms of discontinuation syndrome.
Risk ~ vs ~ benefits, I highly recommend Effexor.
I had all the symptoms you describe and more after being treated for Major Depressive Disorder for years with antidepressants. Then a brilliant psychiatrist recognized my mood swings, anger, and aggressiveness as a form of Bipolar disorder. He immediately ruled out using ANY antidepressants and started me on appropriate medications and I've been happily under control for years.
You might try talking to your doctor about medications like Depakote, lithium, Topamax, etc.
Would you tell me what you were prescribed? I have all of the same issues as well. My doctor keeps prescribing this pill that makes me so tired I can't function and that raises my A1C. My A1C is already 7.0! I was on Effexor but I needed something more. I have Sever Major Depressive Disorder and I had absolutely no energy and I was very depressed. Instead of just prescribing me Wellbutrin in addition she completely changed me to wellbutrin and Rexulti. I really need the Effexor! I even said that while i was taking it, it was the first time in my life I felt 'normal'. I have a friend who is on both Celexa and Wellbutrin and she said the change in her was amazing. Effexor works better for me than Celexa. I also agree with the fact that I need to make a conscious decision not to flip out easily. I've been doing better, but I still need help. Would you please tell me what worked for you?
I took Effexor for years with excellent results but eventually my previously undiagnosed Bipolar II disorder surfaced with severe hypomanic episodes that manifested with agitation, euphoria, anger, and hostility bordering on violence. On the other hand, I also experienced long periods of extreme depression to the point of barely being able to move, stay awake, or even function.
No more antidepressants! I'm currently only taking lithium, Vraylar, and methylphenidate for energy. I feel like a real person again.
Thank you for taking the time and consideration in answering my question. I appreciate your help. I will see it that may help me.
I am a manic depressive with anxiety and severe anger my doctor has me on Effexor and Respridal that is not helping how do I go about asking him about diagnosing me with my severe anger and asking for medication for it
I was weaned off of effexor a couple months ago to be put on something else. That was the WORST experience of withdrawal I ever had! Crying, anger, anxiety, basically felt like I was going to lose my mind. I was put back on effexor and felt better immediately. I'm still not feeling like I would like to but it's a far cry from the hell I went through during withdrawal. I hope no one ever had to go through this!
I went through it. It was awful. They should never use that medicine.
I completely agree, except I haven't been able to completely wean off.
Effexor is terrible. For me while it helped some mentally, physically I felt off. Changes in vision, can't finish sentences, etc. I am weaning off of it at 37 .5 mg every other day. Withdrawals are hell. Mood is terrrible. Crying, anger, miserable. This stuff is ruining my life. So I either stay on it or get off. Both are so hard to do. Point is don't get on it because if you ever want to get off it is damn near impossible! At least for me. Good luck.
If you are suffering from mood swings then a medication to stabilize your mood should be taken before taking any antidepressants.
Are these mood swings recent or have you had them for awhile? Could they be age related or symptoms of PMS? There are a lot of things to consider in regards to mood swings.
I hope you get the answers you need when you go to the doctor.
Your response indicates you don't know much about the topic. Antidepressants are used to stabilize a person's moond.
I know a lot about mood swings as I have bipolar and an antidepressant can throw a person with mood swings into full blown mania. The full extent of the mood swings should be investigated before prescribing an antidepressant.
lady sure is right!! Antidepressants pushed me into full-blown manic episodes that required hospitalization. Doctors now know this and many, if not all, antidepressants now carry prescribing warnings for professionals.
Anticonvulsants and lithium are used to stabilize mood. Antidepressants relieve depression and anxiety.
29, bipolar 1, all my life, joy. You have to really want help, you have to commit to research, The 2nd doc to attempt to help me, almost gave me zoloft lmao which i took at 14. I had to remind him that it will send me into mania spiral, correct? He literally said yes, your right.
Point being, You should always research, its a shot in the dark to get started, so self awareness is very important.
Im being treated for violent aggressive behavior rapid cycling, you can do it, ive nvr been hospitalized or arrested, confusing right. Like i said, you gotta really want relief.
I was prescribed Citalopram for depression but they have ruined my job, family, relationships I have no interest in things I used to love I ran everyday and now haven’t for a year my anger is uncontrollable and I sleep all of the time I now have no life any advice?
Effexor is the best
wow i just looked at the side effects for Effexor wow some severe side effects almost seems instead of fixing one issue it can create more
If you plan on never going off of it, however the withdrawal off the medicine is horrible. They had me do it slowly but it didn't matter. They should put you in hospital or a rubber room to get off the medicine. Makes you very sick, feels like lightening zapping your brain, dizzy etc. I couldn't work. The doctor said it should be done in hospital but because of insurance they can no longer do that.
I stopped Effexor on a reducing dose over one week's time with no discontinuation syndrome at all.
You must have been on a low dose.
I was on 225mg/day.
Hi JavonM
I have been recently prescribed prozac,which i find is good at the moment,i used to flip at the smallest of things like you described,but i also suffer from anxiety/panic and depression. my doc put me on lexapro for a while but changed me to effexor which i had'nt a good experience with,but everyone is different,some swear by it and said it saved their lives,just what works for some disagrees with others.Speak to your doc about how you're feeling,then he/she can establish what meds may suit you best.
Good luck with it
Hey JavonM
If you are suffering from depression as well as aggressiveness, then Effexor may well help. Other medications you may consider are Lamictal, Depakote, and Abilify. Each of these medications are prescribed for mood swings.
Best to discuss your options with the doctor as he/she will know all the possibilities. Good luck and keep in touch,
Laurie
thank you for ur response. Yes, I def need to find something to help with my mood swings, my marriage depends on it also. I have a doc app wed so well see. Thanks ahain :)
i am in the same boat i can't control my anger i get mad so quickly over small stupid stuff my feelings get hurts i hold on to things i wish i could be b etter its destroying my relation ship
I have only just joined this site and thought I was the only person going through hell and risking my relationship I have given up my job and have no interest in anything my anger is ridiculous any advice?
I am the same i am ruining my relationship because of mood swings and jealousy. The amount i love my partner is unreal, is there any advice because medication doesnt seem to help me and my partner has had enough
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