Hello, I just had sex for the first time with my boyfriend and it was unprotected. I just wanted to know that if he didn't ejaculate can I still become pregnant from pre ejaculation? We didn't have sex for very long only a couple minutes because I was scared, I just wanted to know what I should think/know and this point
Pregnancy - if he didn't ejaculate can I still become pregnant from pre-ejaculation?
Question posted by liana1027 on 21 May 2012
Last updated on 23 February 2020
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abreharris23
3 Aug 2013
Yes you CAN get pregnant from that! But will you, we don't know. Only time will tell. So if you aren't TTC then go get the emergency contraceptive like the others said.
vegasvick
27 May 2013
No You Cannot!!! There is a very minimal risk of getting pregnant, trust me! The only way you can get pregnant from pre-ejaculation is if he had cum before with you during sex, by masturbating, or god forbid with someone else, and he never went Pee in the bathroom to flush it out of his penis. That is the only way Pre-ejac can get you pregnant. Otherwise, no, you are safe. But only he knows if he really came in you a little or not. So I hope he is honest with you sweetie.
Lovelyjubbly
6 April 2013
I personally became pregnant after literally 60 second of sex and then he lost his erection?! I was like 'that doesn't even count! Right?" WRONG. That's all it took. Be safe x
DexMei
7 March 2016
Does your partner ejaculate into ur body?
Sleepyhead865
18 March 2018
Did you take emergency contraceptive after?
CatRmsninsc
2 Feb 2019
Correct
smileyhappy
21 May 2012
If you feel responsible enough to have sex, you should be responsible enough to have proper protection and safe sex. It's time for you to see your doctor to discuss what you want to use for sex. You don't want an unplanned pregnancy. I don't know if your boyfriend has had sex before? If so he should be checked to make sure he has no sexual deseases that he can pass to you. You don't want those either. Don't want to scare you but you need to think about this before you have sex.
Hope all goes well
Jackie1234567
10 April 2015
No one asked for a judgmental and demeaning response. It would be more helpful to rephrase what is said through an understanding but stern voice. Women don't need to feel bad about sex. They just need information... in this case.. more specifically about whether or not she can get pregnant.
a_esparza
28 April 2016
So about a month a go I had unprotected sex with a friend of mine and he came inside me . well about two weeks after I had my period but it only lasted two days I last seven days could I be pregnant?
Alex247
2 May 2016
My Girlfriend and i having sex during her period without condom but i didn't ejaculate inside her. pre - ejaculation can pregnant ? also her period still coming at this morning but it stopped at evening can it be pregnant sign ?
hmhcah_11
22 May 2016
I have a question?! so me and my boyfriend just had protective sex and he didn't ejaculate could I still get prego if he didn't ejaculate and we used a condom?!
sabyria
11 July 2016
excuse me but unplanned is not a bad thing. unplanned does not mean unloved or unwanted. you should really stop being such a bigot and be more supportive and helpful instead of rude and condescending
smileyhappy
11 July 2016
Unplanned when it's your first time is frightening for a young couple.and not responsible. They are young. No one said anything about them not be able to love their child.
DzooBaby
21 May 2012
Pulling out before ejaculation does little to nothing to prevent pregnancy. Men do secrete sperm throughout the sex act and it only takes one. If he did any vaginal penetration at all there is a chance for pregnancy. It depends on if the time was right and if there was a mature egg ready for fertilization as to whether or not you will get pregnant. I've known of many girls who got pregnant on their first time. I do know that if you didnt get pregnant this time, and you continue to be sexually active with no protection, you WILL get pregnant sooner or later. If you are going to be sexually active, you need to get yourself some kind of birth control. Condoms and spermicidal foam is probably one of the easiest to get. Insist that your boyfriend have a condom on from start to finish.
I have known of instances where the male put his penis in a few times for the feel then put a condom on and the female got pregnant so it is important that he never penetrate without a condom in place if you decide to use condoms for protection. You may also consider hormonal birth control like the Pill or Depo-Provera injections. many women find the Pill easy and convenient. there can be more sponteneity on the Pill. You dont have to prepare anything before sex like you do with barrier methods like a condom or diaphram. Make an appt with a gynecologist or go to a Family Planning clinic and have a female exam and talk with the nurse or Dr about your options. At this point, if you are within a 72 hour window, you can try something like Plan b but if it is beyond three days since you had sex there is nothing to do but wait and see. Now that you have let your boyfriend have sex with you, you can pretty much figure he will want to do so again so you do need to think about birth control. Good Luck!
liana1027
22 May 2012
Thank you for helping me out I'm planning on making a doctors appointment very soon. And I will have a talk with my boyfriend about safe sex. Hopefully everything goes well, thank you again for your help
Emjayyxox
19 May 2013
Hey, I read your response to another female, and I have had sex a couple times and the first time was with a condom and the other one wasn't, sorry if I make anything awkward but I need to know this... I was pleasuring my boyfriend and he ejaculated, he didn't wash after like I thought he would (gross) then later like an hour at least we had unprotected sex (I was assuming he was going to use a condom), can I get pregnant? I am like having a figurative heart attack and I am quite scared
shadowedblue
17 July 2013
Um if he doesn't clean and still could be a possibility of sperm going in you and getting pregnant.
haley1244
3 Aug 2013
Hey i need your help. Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time 4 nights ago he wore a condom pulled outand seen himself sperm in the condom. I have been feeling kinda weird but i also felt weird after he finger me for a while for 2 nights in a row. Could i be pregnent??? Please help im really scared!!!
shadowedblue
3 Aug 2013
I first had sex about almost a month a go and I had weird feelings okay So I had sex July 9 and then the next week I had sex 15th and 17th and then I got my period on that Friday. My boyfriend was wearing a condom and it broke I had him check it twice and the second time he checked he saw it broke. And it scared him badly cause he thought I was pregnant and my mom would take me away from him and That's when I had to look up if pre cum would get me pregnant. And I got him to calm down. But I have had those weird feelings where it I wouldn't know know how to describe it cause it doesn't really itch but it feel like it craves sex but it certainly was sore, my vagina that is, cause your stretching your walls inside and it hurts the first time and you have sex again It's gonna hurt the first few mins but it is So much easier after the first time. But I was feeling kinda like what you were saying. If the condom didn't break then you should be fine.
CaptainJJ5
21 Aug 2013
Soooo, I had sex and I used a condom, it was both our first time, and we were quiet nervous to be honest. Before this she was close to having her period and I think she was late already, before having sex. Now, we had sex but because it hurt her too much I stopped and I didn't go fully in. I didn't ejaculate and I'm sure that I put the condom on properly. She still hasn't had a period and its been a week since :( what's going on :( ?? Is she pregnant :(
shadowedblue
21 Aug 2013
I have pain when I go back into having sex after a couple days and if she's stressed out that might be a symptom of late period but best thing to do is to get a pregnancy test just to be sure that she isn't. Check first before assuming other things okay =)
Lisa7898
10 July 2014
Ok me and my boyfriend had sex 10 days ago and he didn't use a condom he didn't ejacuation at all and he didn't had sex w/ me in my vaginal but he only did it in my booty hole am I pregnant plz answer quickly I'm very nervous
kendrauhls101
30 Jan 2015
I have a question you might be able to help me with. You kinda already did. I had sex with my fiance on my ovulation day. For previous reasons we didn't go very long. 5 minutes maybe. Needless to say I was still upset about something so he stopped to hug me. Because we stopped he didn't ejaculate. Could I still be pregnant especially having I be my ovulation day?
Gemma123
11 April 2016
I have a question two days ago I had sex with this guy and we used a condom the first time but did it again I went and got the after morning pill today but my the health nurse thinks I'm fertile I'm really scared because I'm fertile does this mean I could be pregnant even if he didn't cum ?
Zoefayad
15 Jan 2018
How long do you have to be on BC for to be protected from getting ejaculated in AND not being ejaclauted in?
Marvell
21 May 2012
It's really hard to say whether you'll get pregnant or not ... but just as a precaution I would suggest that you get the emergency contraceptive pill: https://www.drugs.com/plan-b.html
I don't know your age... you can either get a prescription from a doctor or go to your local pharmacy.
Karinalove123
25 Jan 2017
Hi so I had back to back without a condom and than the next day I got my period could I still become pregnant ?
LadybugMom
10 April 2017
Yes, if your ovaries have already begun to release another egg, you can become pregnant. Also, a woman's cervical fluid provides the sperm with the nutrients they need to survive during their journey to the ovum. The typical lifespan of sperm in a woman's body while fertile cervical fluid is present is three days, but in the right conditions sperm can even live up to five days
anirbanghosh08
24 May 2017
if I he didn't ejaculate inside vagina but ejaculate after 20 min by myself can I still become pregnate?? Just only put penis inside vagina for sex but not ejaculate.
anirbanghosh08
24 May 2017
if I didn't ejaculate inside vagina but ejaculate after 20 min by myself can she still become pregnate?? Just only put penis inside vagina for sex but not ejaculate.
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