Im a 25 year old male and iv taken Zoloft about two years ago for my social anxiety and it worked for about a month then did the complete opposite and made me more nervous then before. Also i recently tried Lexapro and the first day i took it, it was unbearable for me, it made me extremely nervous and scared to the point that i couldn't communicate or socialize with anyone because of it. im not so much depressed but my anxiety around others is terrible. iv just been proscribed effexor and before i take it i want to make sure that it wont make me feel like lexapro made me feel like.